{"id":154,"date":"2026-04-07T22:09:44","date_gmt":"2026-04-07T22:09:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vi.reincarnatiopedia.com\/object-relations-psychotherapy-vi\/"},"modified":"2026-04-09T03:01:05","modified_gmt":"2026-04-09T03:01:05","slug":"tri-lieu-quan-he-doi-tuong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/tri-lieu-quan-he-doi-tuong\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><script type=\"application\/ld+json\">\n{\n  \"@context\": \"https:\/\/schema.org\",\n  \"@graph\": [\n    {\n      \"@type\": \"Article\",\n      \"headline\": \"T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng\",\n      \"description\": \"H\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng: ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm chuy\u00ean gia.\",\n      \"about\": {\n        \"@type\": \"DefinedTerm\",\n        \"name\": \"T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng\",\n        \"inDefinedTermSet\": \"Ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 Gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1\"\n      },\n      \"author\": {\n        \"@type\": \"Organization\",\n        \"name\": \"Reincarnatiopedia\"\n      },\n      \"publisher\": {\n        \"@type\": \"Organization\",\n        \"name\": \"Reincarnatiopedia\",\n        \"url\": \"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\"\n      },\n      \"inLanguage\": \"vi\",\n      \"keywords\": \"T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, Object relations psychotherapy, \u041f\u0441\u0438\u0445\u043e\u0442\u0435\u0440\u0430\u043f\u0438\u044f \u043e\u0431\u044a\u0435\u043a\u0442\u043d\u044b\u0445 \u043e\u0442\u043d\u043e\u0448\u0435\u043d\u0438\u0439, T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u: H\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn To\u00e0n di\u1ec7n\"\n    },\n    {\n      \"@type\": \"BreadcrumbList\",\n      \"itemListElement\": [\n        {\n          \"@type\": \"ListItem\",\n          \"position\": 1,\n          \"name\": \"Trang ch\u1ee7\",\n          \"item\": \"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/\"\n        },\n        {\n          \"@type\": \"ListItem\",\n          \"position\": 2,\n          \"name\": \"T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u: H\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn To\u00e0n di\u1ec7n\",\n          \"item\": \"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/psychotherapy-guide\/\"\n        },\n        {\n          \"@type\": \"ListItem\",\n          \"position\": 3,\n          \"name\": \"T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng\"\n        }\n      ]\n    },\n    {\n      \"@type\": \"FAQPage\",\n      \"mainEntity\": [\n        {\n          \"@type\": \"Question\",\n          \"name\": \"T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec?\",\n          \"acceptedAnswer\": {\n            \"@type\": \"Answer\",\n            \"text\": \"T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1edbm c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. N\u00f3 xem x\u00e9t c\u00e1c '\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng' n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a \u2013 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u2013 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.\"\n          }\n        },\n        {\n          \"@type\": \"Question\",\n          \"name\": \"T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\",\n          \"acceptedAnswer\": {\n            \"@type\": \"Answer\",\n            \"text\": \"Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u gi\u00fap th\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh quan h\u1ec7 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a n\u00e0y trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, th\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edf ra kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi v\u00e0 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n.\"\n          }\n        },\n        {\n          \"@type\": \"Question\",\n          \"name\": \"Ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng?\",\n          \"acceptedAnswer\": {\n            \"@type\": \"Answer\",\n            \"text\": \"Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u1eefu \u00edch cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 l\u1eadp, b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 lo \u00e2u, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ranh gi\u1edbi l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh.\"\n          }\n        },\n        {\n          \"@type\": \"Question\",\n          \"name\": \"L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9?\",\n          \"acceptedAnswer\": {\n            \"@type\": \"Answer\",\n            \"text\": \"H\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u v\u1ec1 T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ecdc li\u00ean quan. N\u00ean \u01b0u ti\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 gi\u1ea5y ph\u00e9p h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Tham kh\u1ea3o c\u00e1c hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u t\u1eeb c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia y t\u1ebf kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t.\"\n          }\n        },\n        {\n          \"@type\": \"Question\",\n          \"name\": \"S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 l\u00e0 g\u00ec?\",\n          \"acceptedAnswer\": {\n            \"@type\": \"Answer\",\n            \"text\": \"So v\u1edbi Ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc c\u1ed5 \u0111i\u1ec3n, T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u T\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng t\u1eadp trung s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o '\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng' n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m. So v\u1edbi T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, n\u00f3 xem x\u00e9t c\u00e1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 quan tr\u1ecdng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch chi ti\u1ebft h\u01a1n.\"\n          }\n        }\n      ]\n    }\n  ]\n}\n<\/script><\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i? C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i, b\u1ecb hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng (Object Relations Psychotherapy) mang \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eeb c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1edbm, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u: H\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn To\u00e0n di\u1ec7n, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<h2>Ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c v\u00e0 L\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee7a T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/h2>\n<p>T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n s\u00e2u xa trong c\u00e1c l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft <a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/phan-tam-hoc\/\">Ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc<\/a>, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh ti\u00ean phong c\u1ee7a Melanie Klein v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 20. Klein \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh, t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ban \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng &#8216;\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng&#8217; (nh\u01b0 v\u00fa m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c). B\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hay ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed9i h\u00f3a v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 sau n\u00e0y. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 Donald Winnicott, W.R.D. Fairbairn, v\u00e0 Harry Guntrip \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y, nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh vai tr\u00f2 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. Winnicott \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 &#8216;ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t&#8217; v\u00e0 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3. Fairbairn l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng libido h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng thay v\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i <a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/tri-lieu-tam-dong-hoc\/\">T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u T\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ecdc<\/a> v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Ph\u00e2n t\u00edch (Jungian), <a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/tam-ly-hoc-ban-nga\/\">T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/a>, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 <a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/lieu-phap-adler\/\">Li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p Adler<\/a>. Trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nh\u01b0 T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u T\u1eadp trung Chuy\u1ec3n di hay T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u \u0110\u1ed9ng h\u1ecdc Ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n Chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u c\u0169ng mang nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 k\u1ebf th\u1eeba t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n<h2>C\u00e1c Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 K\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt<\/h2>\n<p>Trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c &#8216;\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng&#8217; n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u s\u1ebd l\u1eafng nghe b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng, ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y. M\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi &#8216;chuy\u1ec3n di&#8217; (transference) \u2013 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c chuy\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh h\u00e0nh vi t\u1eeb c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 sang nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa &#8216;\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng&#8217; n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a (h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n) v\u00e0 &#8216;\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng&#8217; b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i (con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng). M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau l\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng h\u01a1n. C\u00e1c kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m t\u1eeb <a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/tri-lieu-tam-dong-hoc\/\">T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u T\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ecdc<\/a> v\u00e0 Ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa th\u00eam qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<h2>Ai T\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/h2>\n<p>T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111ang v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ranh gi\u1edbi l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch cho nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n s\u1eed ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ho\u1eb7c g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 an to\u00e0n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng th\u1ea5p, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i dai d\u1eb3ng, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ecbnh tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u1edf trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng c\u1ea5p t\u00ednh ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<h2>L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t Chuy\u00ean gia T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/h2>\n<p>\u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c ng\u00e0nh li\u00ean quan. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o th\u01b0\u1eddng bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c tham gia c\u00e1c kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u v\u1ec1 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, <a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/phan-tam-hoc\/\">Ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc<\/a>, v\u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/tri-lieu-tam-dong-hoc\/\">T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u T\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ecdc<\/a>. Quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. Ti\u1ebfp theo l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m. Nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p cung c\u1ea5p c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o. Khi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9 h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 h\u1ee3p l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1eebng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<h2>FAQ: C\u00e1c C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi Th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p<\/h2>\n<dl>\n<dt>T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/dt>\n<dd>L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1edbm \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1c &#8216;\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng&#8217; n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a.<\/dd>\n<dt>T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/dt>\n<dd>N\u00f3 gi\u00fap th\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1c m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh quan h\u1ec7 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u, th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m h\u00f3a trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u.<\/dd>\n<dt>Ai h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng?<\/dt>\n<dd>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 l\u1eadp, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n<div class=\"rp-cta\">\n<p>Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/session\/\" class=\"rp-btn\">T\u00ecm Chuy\u00ean gia<\/a>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"rp-related\">\n<h3>Xem th\u00eam<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/phan-tam-hoc\/\">Ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/tri-lieu-tam-dong-hoc\/\">T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u T\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ecdc<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/tam-ly-hoc-ban-nga\/\">T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/lieu-phap-adler\/\">Li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p Adler<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"rp-related\" style=\"background:#f0f5ff;padding:15px;border-radius:8px;margin:25px 0\">\n<p><strong>\u0110\u1ecdc th\u00eam:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/tri-lieu-tam-dong-hoc\/\">Psychodynamic psychotherapy<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"rp-related\" style=\"background:#f0f5ff;padding:15px;border-radius:8px;margin:25px 0\">\n<p><strong>\u0110\u1ecdc th\u00eam:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/tri-lieu-tam-dong-hoc\/\">Psychodynamic psychotherapy<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"rp-see-also\">\n<h3>Xem th\u00eam<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"\/tri-lieu-tam-dong-hoc\/\">Psychodynamic psychotherapy<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i? C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i, b\u1ecb hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi &#8230; <a title=\"T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/tri-lieu-quan-he-doi-tuong\/\" aria-label=\"\u0110\u1ecdc th\u00eam v\u1ec1 T\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u Quan h\u1ec7 \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng\">\u0110\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfp<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/154","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=154"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/154\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":160,"href":"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/154\/revisions\/160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=154"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=154"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reincarnatiopedia.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=154"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}